Accomplishing More Isn’t Going To Help You Care Less …
The truth is, smart, high-achieving women tend to care even more about others’ opinions. But there are real steps and proven methods that work for smart minds like yours – even when nothing else has.
Ever feel like your brain refuses to SHUT UP about what everyone else might be thinking about you?
You propose a new idea in a meeting, and then watch everyone’s faces anxiously to see if they think you sound dumb.
You raise your rates and spend the next 24 hours convinced every client who doesn’t respond immediately is ghosting you forever — and brace yourself for the angry comments on Instagram.
You say you don’t want to attend that late birthday dinner across town, and then you worry that your friends are mad and think you’re selfish.
You leave work a little early to get to the school recital a little late and you worry your boss is mad AND the rest of the parents are looking down on you for tardiness.
No wonder you’re exhausted.
As a high-achieving woman, you’re managing a million things, while running the gauntlet of other people’s opinions in your own mind every single day!
You may know intellectually it’s impossible to please everyone.
(If your mom still thinks you should go to graduate school …
And your best friend wants you to start an art commune with her …
You can’t do both, at least not at one time.)
But just knowing it’s impossible doesn’t keep you from trying to live up to everyone’s expectations, make them all happy, and control what they think about you at all times.
The bad news is that making everyone happy and controlling what they think about you is literally impossible to accomplish and you will die trying! Sorry, but it’s true.
The good news is you can actually stop trying to manage what everyone else thinks about you at every moment … and feel better about yourself than you ever have before.
That’s what I’m here to teach you in this instant-access workshop…
Introducing:
How to Stop Caring What Other People Think
Inside this on-demand workshop and accompanying workbook, you’ll learn:
Why achieving more, proving yourself, and building your confidence hasn’t made this better – and the one reframe that finally will.
A powerful question that cuts through years of approval-seeking and shows you what’s really driving it.
A simple exercise to start trusting yourself over everyone else – so you can make decisions, take risks, and show up fully without looking for outside approval.
Get instant access straight to your email.
What people are saying about my trainings
I’m paying so much more attention to my thoughts and how they affect my feelings. I’ll catch myself making assumptions about how other people think or feel about me and I’ll stop and really analyze it and curiously look at where it’s coming from. This has defused many situations.
– Patty
My business is growing. I am more empowered with my money and the decisions I make with my money. I am so much more out there on social media! (Huge for me). I care less about what people think and more about what I think.
– Maxine
I still have the same job. I live in the same house. I look the same. I have roughly the same amount of money in the bank. I experience all the same emotions. There is no big achievement unlocked here.
BUT
It’s different now. I’m not overwhelmingly anxious.
I am fantasizing less and less about how I would feel if I was thin. I don’t second guess my husband’s attraction to me nearly as much.
I am less offended at work and at home.
– Vicky
Who am I to teach this?
I’m Kara Loewentheil. Apart from being an Ivy League-educated Master Certified Coach and the author of the New York Times-bestselling book “Take Back Your Brain,” I’m also a former could-be-certified-in-worrying-about-other-people’s-opinions-if-that-was-a-thing.
I spent literal decades holding myself back based on my fears about other people’s opinions.
I stayed in a career I didn’t love because it was prestigious and I thought my parents and colleagues would think I was nuts if I left it.
I stayed in dead-end relationships because I worried that people would judge me if I were single — though I also worried they judged me based on my partners.
I wasted thousands of hours of my life on diets and calorie counting and binging and purging because I was so worried about what other people thought about my body and my weight.
I worried about what people were thinking about what I wore, how my hair looked, what I ate, what I didn’t eat, how I sat in chairs, what I said in meetings, what I didn’t say, how much money I made or didn’t make, what my friends said or did, who my family was, whether I had kids or not, what I read, what I listened to, what I watched — the list was truly endless.
It was all-consuming, and I did not grow out of it.
It didn’t get better when I got older.
It didn’t get better when I got more successful.
It didn’t get better when I hit my life milestones.
It only got better when I learned how to change it on purpose.
And that’s what I’m teaching inside the How to Stop Caring What Other People Think Workshop.
Because my mission on this planet is to liberate people all over the world from the tyranny of caring more about what others think of them than about what they think of themselves.
If that’s what you want for yourself, this workshop is your first step.
I knew that this training would be great, but it exceeded all my expectations. The coaching was really powerful: seeing Kara cut through all the different kinds of BS that our brains come up with is so helpful, and I know that I will get something different out of it every time I go back to watch it again.
— Bessie
