Do you keep promising yourself that soon, you’ll get your sh*t together?

That tomorrow, everything will be different?

You’ll buckle down and do your thought work.

You’ll focus on your self-development.

You’ll finally get that new habit started.

Except tomorrow arrives, and it isn’t different after all?

Spoiler Alert: Most of us go about trying to change our lives the wrong way.

I’m gonna say we have Freud to blame for misleading us on this. (Another old white man, amirite?)

But I’ll skip the history lesson and just put it this way:

We have been taught to believe that INSIGHT is what will change our lives.

If we just understand the areas where we feel insecure at work, we’ll feel confident.

If we just understand why we choose unavailable romantic partners, we’ll pick better ones.

If we just understand how our parents screwed us up, we’ll feel better.

But if you’ve ever read a self-help book or been to therapy or kept a journal and yet not really felt any different, you know the truth:

That’s not really how it works.

Insight is definitely important. We can’t change anything until we understand it.

But understanding doesn’t actually do anything on its own.

You can understand that a car is crashing because the brakes are bad, but that just means you’re watching the car crash happen.

If you don’t know how to actually FIX the brakes, that knowledge is not too useful.

The same is true with your own brain.

If you want to make more money, you don’t just need to be aware of your money mindset. You need to know how to CHANGE IT.

If you want to pick a romantic partner who actually wants to have a relationship with you, you don’t just need to know your attachment style and how it’s making you anxious. You need to know how to CHANGE IT.

If you want to let go of all your resentment and wounds so you can evolve into a more powerful version of yourself, you don’t just need to understand what happened to you as a child. You need to know how to CHANGE your thoughts NOW.

Insight is nice.

Transformation will change your f*cking life. 

Unfortunately the biggest block to transformation is that our brains associate our current beliefs with safety

Even when they are not serving us. 

Even when they make us feel unsafe

That’s why sometimes these beliefs require extra support to change.

And that’s what The Society Symposium is all about.

The Society Symposium

A three-day, live, in-person coaching immersion.

It’s designed to take you deeper, faster — and to teach your brain that it’s safe to change by immersing it in a supportive community container. 

Come as you are now — and leave as the person you want to be.

June 27-29, 2025

The biggest ‘thank you’ for this life-altering learning opportunity. It was so beautifully executed, I was challenged with mind-blowing concepts and in awe the entire time. The topics we discussed and tools we learned will help me in every area of my life and help me fight for the person I want to become. And all simply for the joy and curiosity of growing. I’m so excited.

– Anna

Day 1: master the model

You know that feeling you get when your boss criticizes your work, or that person you’ve been dating says they met someone else, or your fourth friend from college in a row posts online about her weight loss and the marathon she ran?

That punch-to-the-gut / sinking stomach / racing heart combination, where you’re somehow depressed, anxious, and nauseous all at the same time?

Here’s what’s wild: It’s actually possible to live the rest of your life without that feeling.

But in order to do that, you have to know how to change it while it’s happening.

Not just be able to deconstruct it a week later, once you’ve calmed down but after you’ve had 3 bottles of wine and bought a dress in the moment that you didn’t need.

 But actually shift your thoughts while they are happening — and eventually, get so good at it that those crippling negative thoughts don’t even come up at all.

 If you want more emotional resilience — aka to be able to control that rollercoaster in your brain —  you must understand how to access and change your thoughts correctly, effectively, and powerfully. Whenever you need to, wherever you are. That’s what Day 1 is all about.

Not only are you going to become a model expert, I’m going to introduce you to a totally new tool (that’s only available at The Society Symposium) for understanding what’s going on with your models, and where to go next when you’re working on a tough topic.

 

 

Day 2: MONEY IS FOR WOMEN TOO

Money seems like the ultimate circumstance sometimes, doesn’t it?

It’s out there in the world, there’s a finite amount of it, and we have to scheme and fight to get our share, which never feels like enough.

If that’s what it seems like to you, I get it. 

But that’s not reality. 

That’s the story that a sexist, capitalist society has told us to believe.

Society has told us money is bad and not for us — but oddly all those guys in power who tell us that have plenty of it for themselves. Huh. 🤔

The truth is that money is a human invention, and it’s not an exception to the model. 

Money is a circulating resource and there’s so much out there for you. 

The morality of money lies in how you create it and what you do with it. 

But when you don’t believe that money is for you, you can’t see it all around you.

Yes, there are political and social realities that shape how money is distributed.

But you know what else shapes how much money you can have or create?

YOUR BRAIN. 

Your thoughts about money, specifically. 

So on Day 2 we’re going to get deep into upgrading your money mindset, so that you can change your relationship with your finances forever.

 

Day 3: Choose Your Relationship Adventure

Other people can be the best — and worst — parts of our lives. 

That’s because our romantic partners and our family relationships trigger some of our earliest, deepest stories about ourselves and the world. 

Which also means learning how to create safety, security, and love for yourself in any relationship is the key to having more fulfilling relationships with others. 

Whether you want to work on your family relationships, your dating or romantic partnerships, or any other relationship in your life — Day 3 is going to be all about love.

Because when you can produce love on demand using your brain, you have what other people spend their whole lives looking for. 

It can make family harmony and joy your daily experience — but also lets you set boundaries with family and love them from afar when needed.

It can make dating a fun adventure and partnership a beautiful exploration — and it also  means you always know how to love yourself through the ups and downs of human intimacy. 

Love is all we really want, at the end of the day — but only a few of us know how to create it for ourselves.

After these three days, you will too. 

The energy in the room makes it all land deeper. Coaching in person? You retain it in a way that’s impossible to
replicate over Zoom.

– sade

ALL THE DETAILS:

Friday, June 27–Sunday, June 29, 2025

Four Seasons Hotel – St. Louis, Missouri

 

Day 1: Master the Model

:: 9 a.m.–12 p.m. Group learning and coaching with Kara

:: 12 p.m.–1:30 p.m. Lunch Break

:: 1:30 p.m.–4:30 p.m. Small group workshop sessions with coaches

 

Day 2: MONEY IS FOR WOMEN TOO 

 :: 9 a.m.–12 p.m. Group learning and coaching with Kara

:: 12 p.m.–1:30 p.m. Lunch Break

:: 1:30 p.m.–4:30 p.m. Small group workshop sessions with coaches

 

Day 3: choose your relationship adventure

:: 9 a.m.–12 p.m. Small group workshop sessions with coaches

:: 12 p.m.–1:30 p.m. Lunch Break

:: 1:30 p.m.–4:30 p.m. Group learning and coaching with Kara

Don’t worry, we’ve left plenty of time to assimilate, digest, discuss, and work on what you’ve learned in the mornings and evenings. Your Symposium experience will feel luxurious, not rushed. 

This was incredible! The three days were amazing, and the learning will make every day from now on more amazing. I’ve never been to an event like this, and it blew all of my conscious and unconscious expectations out of the water! THANK YOU!!

– BESSIE

INVESTMENT

$4,499

(or 3 payments of $1,500)

 

*NEW THIS YEAR*  

SYMPOSIUM VIP TICKETS

If you want to make life easy, here’s what you do.

Grab a VIP ticket.

Your room at the gorgeous Four Seasons hotel? 

You’re all set, for up to four nights. 

Your lunches? 

Catered in our Symposium Lunch Salon, where you can hang with your fellow attendees and our Society Coaches. 

Your event follow-through?

Guaranteed, with a VIP-only group coaching call with Kara after the event to help you resolve any hitches you’ve hit implementing after the weekend. 

 

VIP INVESTMENT

(all-inclusive of event ticket, hotel room, lunches and post-event call)

$5,999

(or 3 payments of $2,000)
 

Please note:

There are no refunds or cancellations for Society Symposium once you reserve a spot!

There were so many amazing coaches who listened and cut through the crap to come up with these shocking insights to rock my world. And the honesty and courage of all my fellow attendees to come into this with vulnerability, humor and excitement. Loved it all and felt like I was so with my people.

 This was the best multi-day event I’ve ever attended. So well planned and executed. I was actively engaged and fully attentive all three days. Life changing. Thank you!

– RACHEL

IT’S NEVER TOO LATE TO CHANGE WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU LIVE YOUR LIFE,

NO MATTER WHAT YOUR LIZARD BRAIN SAYS.

That’s what this weekend is all about.

:: Imagine what your life would be like if you could coach yourself on the go, at a moment’s notice, or didn’t even need to coach yourself because your brain automatically did it for you. 

:: Imagine what your life would be like if you felt confident, loving, and secure in every relationship in your life.

:: Imagine what your life would be like if you felt abundant and wealthy and knew you could create any money outcome you desire.

That’s the life I have created for myself using only the power of my mind. And I’ve taught thousands of women to do the same.

I can’t wait to teach you too.

I feel to this day, that my life will never be the same because of my attendance. Being with like-minded others was a gift in itself and being with Kara and the coaches was mind blowing. This live event has been so instrumental in moving my thought work journey forward and it helps to feel connected to others that are doing the same work — it was one of the best experiences I have had thus far in my life.

– amy