The Love Hacks

A limited-edition private podcast that teaches you how to create healthier romantic love, self-love, friend and family love, and everything in between — by learning to change your brain.
Episodes dropping August 22-26.

With Kara Loewentheil, New York Times and USA Today #1 bestselling author, internationally top-ranked podcast host, world-renowned coach, globally sought-after speaker, and founder of The Feminist Self-Help Society.

… It’s a wildly different experience of dating [now] like nothing I’ve ever done. And the best part? It has ZERO to do with *HIM*.

Goddamn do I feel FREEEEEEEE

–Devon

I used to think love was something that would happen to me — as long as I conformed to a prescribed societal standard in order to please someone else …

… I’d find my perfect partner as long as I didn’t speak my mind too much.

… I’d be adored by my friends as long as I didn’t rock the boat by speaking up when I thought they were doing something they’d regret.

… I’d feel respected by my family and colleagues as long as I followed the safe, stable career path they thought was right for me.

… I would love myself as long as I lost enough weight to have a certain body size.

Until I discovered that love is something that I can create for myself …

… simply by changing my thoughts about love. 

Now, I want to teach you to do the same. 

Since I started practicing thought work to train my brain to see love differently, I have:

  • Met and married the love of my life. (This isn’t the end-all-be-all of a woman’s fulfillment of course — but it is pretty cool to do life with your favorite person!)
  • Set boundaries and become comfortable saying “no” — even to friends and family — without torturing myself for weeks about who might be secretly mad about it.
  • Become completely secure in who I am and what I do, because my self-worth is no longer attached to people’s opinions of me. 
  • Built my own business to multi-seven-figures and growing, without worrying who would judge me for quitting my prestigious law career to become a feminist mindset coach. 

(And yep, some of this happened after I turned 40. Gasp!)

Turns out: 

The key to creating more loving, fulfilling, free relationships in your romantic life, friendship life, and family life has never been about conforming to others’ expectations, or changing yourself to be “better.” 

It’s about learning how to see and appreciate and receive ALL the kinds of love there are in the world. 

And that’s exactly what I’ll teach you to do in The Love Hacks, this special limited-edition private podcast.

Get access to five bite-sized episodes of concrete, actionable teachings + practices you can start using immediately to create more romantic love, friend love, family love, and self-love in your life. 

Episodes release August 22-26. 

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My family of ten humans is so full of love and yet the end of visits would have me running on fumes desperate to get on that airplane and put the two thousand miles back in their comfortable place between us.

Never, oh ever, did it occur to me things could be different. I am profoundly grateful for this work. Words cannot express.”

–Kim

How do you know it’s going to be worth your time?
Glad you asked.

My work was part of a double-blind study published in the Journal of the American Medical Association Network Open, that showed the kind of thought-change work I teach produces significant improvements in burnout, imposter syndrome, self-compassion and flourishing. Even my most skeptical doctor relative who is a tenured epidemiologist at the NIH was impressed. 😉

HI, I’M KARA LOEWENTHEIL

Creator of The School of New Feminist Thought, host of the UnF*ck Your Brain podcast (40M downloads and counting), and NYT bestselling author of “Take Back Your Brain” (Penguin Life 2024).

I’m a Phi Beta Kappa graduate of Yale College and got my J.D. at Harvard Law School (with honors no less). I clerked on a federal appeals court, litigated reproductive rights, and ran a think tank at Columbia Law School before deciding
to . . . quit my extremely prestigious law career to become a life coach, of course! Best decision I ever made.

Now I run a seven-figure coaching business created around my signature feminist coaching program, The Feminist Self-Help Society. I teach women how to cure socially-programmed anxiety by changing the way they think about themselves, for good. My work has been featured in publications like The New York Times and Glamour Magazine and recommended by podcasts as diverse as “We Can Do Hard Things” with Glennon Doyle to “My Favorite Murder.” I pioneered most of the feminist coaching concepts out there, and my work continues to be on the cutting edge of this field. I firmly believe that self-coaching is the next frontier of the feminist revolution.

If you want to feel love in your life — whether that’s self-love, romantic love, friend and family love, or love for what you do?

Don’t miss this private podcast. 
Episodes drop August 22-26.