Podcast Episodes

UFYB 307: FEMINIST MARRIAGE BRAIN PART 2 – MARRIAGE AMBIVALENCE

On part two of this mini-series on the feminist marriage brain, you’ll hear how I’m contemplating marriage, and the ambivalence that can surface in doing this kind of work. I’m sharing why the decision to get married can bring up complicated feelings, how it’s impossible to completely desocialize our brains, and why this isn’t the problem you might think it is.

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UFYB 306: FEMINIST MARRIAGE BRAIN PART 1 – ENGAGEMENT EXPECTATIONS

This week, you’re hearing the first of a two-part mini-series on what I’ve noticed about our socialization and participation in patriarchal structures such as engagements and marriage. On this episode, I’m sharing the history of the practice of engagement, how it’s shaping our experience of it today, and why women sometimes face disappointment as it relates to their engagement expectations.

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UFYB 305: NEGOTIATION & COLLABORATION FOR PROFESSIONAL WOMEN OF COLOR (AND EVERYONE ELSE): A CONVERSATION WITH EXECUTIVE COACH JAMIE LEE

My guest this week is one of my favorite coaches and a graduate of ACFC. Jamie Lee is a triple-certified executive coach who helps smart women who hate office politics get promoted and paid better by blending the best of practical neuroscience and mutual-benefit negotiation principles. She’s all about helping women accelerate their leadership and advance their careers by advocating for what they want, and she’s here to share her framework with us.

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