Podcast Episodes

331: Should I Coach Myself or Should I Say/Do Something?

This question of, “Should I coach myself or should I say or do something,” is a common framing of self-coaching that I see all the time. It seems innocuous enough, but what you might not realize is how this framing brings with it implications that simply aren’t true or helpful. That’s why, this week, I’m offering you a simple but life-changing shift that will help you stop spinning and start seeing new possibilities.

Read More & Listen »

330: When You and Your Partner Are Moving At Different Speeds: A Conversation with Dr. Alexandra Solomon

With the rise of pop psychology on social media, we’ve been taught to see moving at different speeds than your partner as a huge red flag. However, Dr. Alexandra Solomon – a best-selling author, therapist, speaker, and expert in the study of relationships – believes pace discrepancies allow us to work on essential relational skills, and she’s here to uncover the complexities that our relationships demand.

Read More & Listen »

UFYB 327: How to Fail and Get Back Up Again

LISTEN ON APPLE PODCASTS LISTEN ON SPOTIFY DOWNLOAD THE TRANSCRIPT What You’ll Learn From This Episode: How my travel curse struck again recently. The most important skills to develop once your goal execution is underway. How to identify if perfectionist thinking is getting in your way. The biggest reason we

Read More & Listen »

UFYB 326: F*ck It Brain — Why Resolution or Goal Failure Snowballs

Last week, you heard why New Year’s resolutions or goals in general fail, and how it often has nothing to do with willpower or discipline. So, what is the real culprit? Why does going after our goals become all or nothing? And why do we catch ourselves throwing in the towel and giving up on our goal altogether after a stumble, even if our goal aligns with our values?

Read More & Listen »