Hear the difference between loving and being loved, and which feels better. I’m sharing the unhelpful ways we evaluate the quality of our romantic relationships, why the feeling of love is something we have to create, and what can happen when you shift your focus from being loved to loving.
Krista St-Germain is a Master Certified Coach who helps widowed moms get unstuck and back to loving life again. She’s here to share the unhelpful ways we make grief harder than it needs to be on ourselves, and how we can move forward in a more loving way as we grieve a loss.
Hear why being willing to take a leap of faith is required for anything you haven’t done before. I’m sharing what will happen if you wait to feel certain it’ll work for you, why stepping into the unknown is necessary before you’re sure, and how to make taking a leap of faith easier on yourself.
I’m exploring how we feel and think when we’re fantasizing about the lives that we know we won’t ever have. Real grief and loss are a part of life, and even if both your reality and fantasy are rich, meaningful, and challenging experiences you could have, both aren’t possible. That’s why it’s vital to give yourself space to grieve the lives you haven’t or won’t ever live.
My guest this week is an expert on both self-care and women’s mental health, so her insight on this topic is invaluable. Dr. Pooja Lakshmin is a psychiatrist who specializes in helping high-achieving women who appear to have it all together stop struggling internally. She’s a NY Times Contributor and she recently wrote a powerful new book, Real Self-Care: A Transformative Program for Redefining Wellness (Crystals, Cleanses, and Bubble Baths Not Included).
Second-guessing is something many of us do all the time. It’s so subtle and pervasive in ways we don’t even recognize, and it’s not just some minor mental tick we don’t have to worry about. Second-guessing becomes a way of life for people socialized as women, and the truth is it’s impacting more areas of your life than you might think.